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All Asian Multi-Mistress Play Party in celebration of Chinese New Year on 2/10/16

  • 02/08/2016

Happy Chinese New Year perverts!
In celebration of the Year of the Monkey, 7 of LA’s most wicked Asian Dommes are throwing a New Years celebration like none other. For this second edition of our previously sold-out Eastern Empire party, we are limiting attendance to only 12 submissives worthy of our attention. Luckily for you, there are still a couple spots left for this week’s event at the luxuriously appointed Chi Temple in Downtown Los Angeles. With such a low slave to Mistress ratio, you’ll be sure to receiving lots of 1-on-1 attention if you play your cards right. So don’t miss this amazing opportunity to serve the sensually sadistic of the Eastern Empire while you still can…

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Mistress Lucy does Mexico City: Feb 4-8th, 2016 | All Asian FemDom Party in LA: Feb 10th, 2016

  • 01/21/2016

Happy 2016, My dirty dears!
I hope this new year finds you well and that you’re chomping at the bit to push past old limits…I know I am. And what better way to broaden one’s horizons than with some long-anticipated international travel? I’m thrilled to announce that, I’ll be traveling to Mexico City and taking sessions between February 4-8th. This will be My very first trip to MEX and I am looking forward to exploring everything the city has to offer. I’ve dubbed this year The Year of Pleasure so I fully expect to make it live up to its name in every way.

I have quite a busy itinerary while I’m in Mexico City, so if you hope to catch Me while I’m in town, it bodes well for you to get in touch well in advance. Though I’ll have exclusive access to a luxurious fully-equipped dungeon space for hosting, there also happens to be several art fairs that coincide with My visit, which would make a perfect backdrop for one of My favorite activities: public humiliation :)

As usual, I do require a travel deposit in order to add you to My calendar so if I were you, I’d get the ball rolling today

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DOMINATE YOURSELF: A Manifesto for Submission in celebration of Mistress Lucy’s birthday

  • 12/17/2015

With the calendar year coming to an end, and My birthday on the 21st planted firmly in the midst of the holiday season–which to be realistic, Dommes us all when it comes to social obligations–December has always been a complex month for Me. Juggling My own penchant for flamboyant birthday celebrations with the collective impulse to reenact more traditional orthodoxies, it can be a time fraught with ambivalence and inundation when it comes to reflecting on and wrapping up a year of one’s life.

That’s why this year, dear sluts, I’ve decided to round out My year by writing a Manifesto for Submission. This declarative text is one that is close to My heart–laying out the many reasons why submission, and the surrender it entails, is crucial for living a more lucid and self-actualized life.  This is an important topic so it’s a longer read than usual, but I hope you can buckle down and take from this nugget of wisdom what you will…and that you demonstrate your understanding of it by exercising your submission and treating your Mistress to something very nice for Her birthday ;) 


DOMINATE YOURSELF

A MANIFESTO FOR SUBMISSION

I. Introduction

Do you suffer from feelings of restlessness, dissatisfaction, anxiety, and inferiority? Of course you do! We all have things about ourselves that we would like to change–thoughts, fears, and anxieties we’d rather avoid or pretend like don’t exist. Yet day after day, we go on denying and downplaying our personal weaknesses, hiding from one another the fact that–on some level–we all feel like worthless maggots slithering around in our own goo.

So why don’t we simply make the changes in ourselves that we can so clearly identify? Popular wisdom credits a lack of willpower, resolution, or constitution for the inertia that prevents one from embodying their ideal self. This type of “common sense” logic is as ubiquitous as it is false, acting as a red herring when in fact, the opposite is true: it is actually the inability to submit that holds each of us back from reaching our true potential.

II. The Fiction

Whether you are a Freudian who divides the psyche into id/ego/superego, or a religious type who posits that our “soul” is engaged in a cosmic tug-o-war between good and evil, there is a common sentiment that the human subject is not in agreement with itself. Far from homogeneous, each individual houses an ecosystem–a diverse bio-environment where organs, bacteria, parasites, and viruses are held together in space by the fleshy skin sack that delineates our body.

And yet even with the messiness of this material reality upon us, we still speak of the self as a single entity, driven by a clearly defined force. Self-control, self-discipline, self-possession, single-mindedness…the language we use betrays the collective fiction that currently defines modern life.

We’ve been told over and over that in order to be competitive one must man up, grow a pair, have some balls, don’t be a pussy, act like a man…really? Can you think of anything more vulnerable, or more delicate than balls hanging defenselessly in a sack, unprotected and open to the world? Yet, this is the common language used to denote strength and dominance.

Meanwhile, the pussy, which is capable of taking poundings without repercussion, regularly bleeding for days on end, and literally gives new life to humanity is used as a negativism synonymous with weakness and cowardice. Do you sense an inherent contradiction here?

III. Time to wake up

What are folks talking about? Why all this emphasis on self-dominance and not self-submission? Could it be the same reason that we use the weakest part of humanity as a metaphor for strength?

While language can help us perform the mental gymnastics necessary to invert reality–I, for one, have had enough. I’m sick of seeing people around me miserably toe the line in their personal lives, relationships, and careers—playing it safe out of fear that someone will discover the deviant inside, who will then inevitably expose their carefully curated life as a sham, a failed pantomime of normalcy. I say fuck that old hat…because it’s never too early to hit rock bottom. It can only be too late.

In fact, coming to terms with the worst you have to offer is perhaps the best thing you can do. So stick your dick in that hat and start humping. Understand that your weakness is the part of you that is most real. Dreams and aspirations are like vapor, whimsical fantasies that anyone can conjure–but the shameful repressed parts are what constitute your personal landfill. This is what makes up your foundation here’s where we look into the void that you’ve built your entire life around. Now that’s real.

IV. Sit in your Shit

You led yourself here, and now you must surrender to forces greater than yourself in order to eat your way out of the subterranean mess you made. Make no mistake, what I’m talking about is submission. Willfully relinquish your power and know that it is only through the acceptance and adoption of physical and psychological submission to another that you have any real chance of ultimately submitting to yourself. So isn’t it about time to dissolve your ego and embrace what you dread most? 

Humiliation, degradation, objectification: the more extreme one’s devotion to selflessly serve the desires of another, the more actively one endeavors to transcend the fiction of self that is presented daily, the more one stands to gain from this experience. It is only when one is able to remove one’s own self-imposed limitations that one’s true potential can be revealed. There is no dominance without submission so if you wish to truly master yourself, you must become practiced in the art of surrendering yourself.

This art may not be for everyone. Standing naked and vulnerable in the face of total obliteration takes no small amount of courage. But if you can humbly accept your seat in the shit and stand to be deconstructed–crumbled into a million little pieces under your own lens–I promise, you will transcend insecurities and internalize reality’s inherent contradictions, coming out the other side stronger than you ever imagined.

V. Conclusion

No matter who you are or what you do, you can unleash the power of submission that is already latent inside you.

Give up control, give up hope, and give up judgement. Start your training today to (i) honestly acknowledge your actual makeup (no matter how perverse the fear-driven world might say it is), (ii) lovingly accept your personal garbage heap by wallowing in your worthlessness, (iii) and tap into the regenerative power of submission as a renewable source of strength. Empty your mind, stop asking questions and shed the ego–start your slow crawl to success right this moment and grow a pair…then let Me tie them up in a pretty pink bow and bust them to My hearts content.

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Mistress Lucy’s Endless Summer with Visiting FemDom Friends

  • 10/23/2015

Good afternoon, everyone!

Though this sweltering LA summer is finally cooling down, My social calendar is still burning up! First of all, a big THANK YOU to all the generous patrons who donated to My campaign for AIDS Walk LA! With your help, I came in as the top fundraiser for team Decameron, which raised a total of $1050 to help APLA stop new infections and support people living with HIV/AIDS. Here’s a mid-walk photo with fellow team members Lady Grace, and Mistress Iris from the October 11th event to salute to your contributions!

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Though you’d never know it from our beaming smiles, it’s practically a miracle we made it out bright and early for the Sunday 10K, as The Decameron threw our very first lifestyle play party the night before! In addition to nearly selling out this inaugural event , we were lucky enough to have the sultry Domina Daria in town from Dallas, who graced us with Her presence at the party! As you can see, I’m wearing My bright gold dungeon monitor (we prefer “kinky liaison”) sash in the photo below flanked by Mistress Iris and Domina Daria…don’t I look right at home as a naughty Girl Scout? 
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If that weren’t enough to round out this epic month of FemDom sisterhood, I’m thrilled to announce that My fellow human toilet enthusiast Bossy Bitch Delilah will be in Los Angeles from October 20-27th! We became fast friends during My trip to Atlanta in 2013 when we bonded over Our love for shoving caviar down boys’ throats, so I’m excited to play together during her visit to The Decameron! We’ll be taking applications for double Domme sessions so be sure not to miss out on this exceptionally rare opportunity to serve two exotic FT Goddesses in tandem. Obviously advanced notice will be required for such an epic opportunity, so get in touch today to inquire about scheduling :)

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So what are you waiting for? 

 

Decameron Academy Play Party on 9/19 & AIDS Walk LA 2015

  • 09/13/2015

Hello, My dear bottoms.

There’s something about the end of summer that really gets My blood pumping. Even though I’ve completed My studies for now, I still feel that back-to-school twinge of excitement. The beginning of the academic year brings with it a swell of potential energy–the feeling that anything is possible in the next nine months.  With the air flooded with a sense of nervous excitement, students step back into their respective preparatory institutions, eager to carve our their niche. Desire, humiliation, transformation, competition, and pride are the forces that circulate through the student body, stirring up a collective anticipation of what’s to come…

To Me, this tension is absolutely delicious. I love teetering on the edge of experience where potential energy meets kinetic energy; the instant just before an unknown becomes a known. There is something absolutely naughty and adolescent about this moment…and that’s why I’m so excited to invite you inside Decameron Academy, My dungeon’s prep school themed, Multi-Mistress play party, which is just under one week away!

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You can be sure that the Elite 8 featured in the party flier above will be in our meanest school girl gear, grinding at the hip to tear you measly boys apart! For more info, do visit The Decameron’s website on how to get on our exclusive guestlist. Be there or be square.


But even the meanest bully Bitches have hearts, you know…!
For the 2nd year in a row, I’ll be participating in AIDS Walk LA–this time with the Ladies of the Decameron. Last year, I raised over $1000 with your help, and this year I know we can hit the $1500 mark. As you may have noticed in some of My recent photo tweets, I’ve been hitting it extra hard in the gym recently, partially in preparation for this 10K event! So if you’ve been stroking it to My hot Asian ass or My perfectly toned stems, you better pay your cum tax and donate to My campaign NOW! 

Here are a few candid dorm room shots to remind you of where your lunch money is going ;)

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THE EASTERN EMPIRE | Exclusive All-Asian FemDom play party | August 21, 2015

  • 08/07/2015

Hello, dear followers.

I’m newly back from Chicago and excited to share with you a long-awaited party that is just on the horizon. After months of brainstorming and organizing, I’m thrilled to say that The Decameron is co-hosting Our first-ever ALL ASIAN Multi-Mistress FemDom Party with the infamous Chi Sisters in the freshly re-built Chi Temple in Downtown LA!

If you know Me, you know that I love playing with friends, so I am eagerly awaiting this day of full Asian Female Supremacy with six of My closest. In THE EASTEN EMPIRE, lowly males will be made familiar with their new station in life: under the boots of fierce, feminine Eastern Beauties. While we may seduce you with our bewitching gaze and smooth skin, make no mistake that you’ll be watching your preconceptions of the submissive Asian Female crumble in front of your very eyes as We hijack your will and destroy your ego…

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This is an exclusive invite-only play party featuring some of the finest Dominas in Southern California. If you think you are worthy of our time, you may see who is attending and apply for an invitation here.

For those who are lucky enough to have served Me in the past, you may contact Me directly to request an invitation. Space is very limited so don’t delay as this rare opportunity to serve your Eastern Goddesses all under one roof will sell out.

Good luck and hope you make the cut!

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Me & Attending Mistress AnLi at the 2015 DecameronLA Spank n’ Shine station.